Dare 2 Try without Fear Failing to Succeed

Asian parents have been protective of their kids which have done untold damages.

Kids were always told "Don't do this - Don't do that" - "You can't do it". Kids were scolded like "You are Useless" - "You are Stupid" Then our parents always told us to study hard to get good grades so that we would get good jobs with good salary. This would make the parents happy & proud of their children.

Parents do not encourage their kids to try anything new. Few parent encourage kids to explore and discover their talents for fear of the unknown. Their hidden talents remained regretfully dormant and therefore wasted.

Hopefully the Asian parents of the Internet age would bring about a new breed of kids who will Dare 2 Try without Fear of Failing in order to Succeed. This can only happen if the young adults are aware of the power of their subconscious mind.


There are 20 Ways to Get Mentally Tough to face the challenges of the day:-


1. When facing setback, take it as a challenge that will lead to a future accomplishment.

2. When you encounter adversity, remember, the best don't just face adversity; embrace it, knowing it's not a dead end but a detour to something greater and better.

3. When you face -ve people, stay positive in the face of negativity, not in the absence of it. Everybody have to overcome negativity to define themselves and create their success.

4. When you face the naysayer's, remember the people who believed in you and spoke positive words to you.

5. When you face critics, remember to tune them out and focus only on being the best you can be.

6. Take morning walks of gratitude and prayer. It will create a fertile mind ready for success.

7. When you fear, trust. Let your faith be greater than your doubt.

8. When you fail, find the lesson in it, and then recall a time when you have succeeded.

9. When you head into battle, visualize success.

10. Always focus your energy on the present moment. The now is where your power is the greatest.

11. When you want to complain, instead identify a solution.

12. Never self-doubt, weed it and replace it with positive thoughts and positive self-talk.

13. When you feel distracted, focus on your breathing, observe your surroundings, clear your mind, and get into The Zone. The Zone is not a random event. It can be created.

14. When you feel all is impossible, know that with God all things are possible.

15. Think of all the people who have helped you and who love and support you now.

16. When you feel lost, pray for guidance.

17. Stay energized Never, never, never give up. Finish Strong in everything you do.

18. When you feel like you can't do it, know that you can do all things through Him who gives you strength. If you think you can, you can.......

19. When you feel like your situation is beyond your control, pray and surrender. Focus on what you can control and let go of what you can't.

20. When you're in a high-pressure situation and the game is on the line, and everyone is watching you, remember to smile, have fun, and enjoy it. Life is short; you only live once. You have nothing to lose. Seize the moment.

Note: Universal Law of Attraction states that “we attract that which we focus on with the MOST intensity, and this attraction can create a +ve or –ve experience depending on its nature.

Do spend time by yourself everyday to reflect on the things that you were attracting or not attracting into your life of the day. Visualize the LIFE that you WANT to CREATE for YOURSELF intensively and it will MANIFEST ITSELF.

How many of us can be Mentally, Physically, Emotionally & Morally Strong? We should have some levels of achievement in all these attributes to live a fruitful life as a asset to the society.

*It is a fact that all of us came into this world by virtue of success right inside our mother's womb.
*We have come to this stage of life by virtue of our successes in overcoming all challenges and barriers right from infancy to adulthood.
*We will continue to overcome all difficulties and challenges by taking lessons, learning from failures, successes and trying out new ways to reach our Goals in living everday filled with Fun, Excitement, Joy and Happiness.

There is no reason to fear, to doubt or to be discouraged if the path is CLEAR. Fear under such situation is admitting defeat hands down. Why? Is it anxiety or worry that conquered the conscious mind?

Principle reasons for failure are 1. Lack of Confidence and 2. doing the same thing tirelessly expecting better results.

To overcome failure one have to 1. acknowledge the problem, 2. seek out solutions to the problem and 3. instill a deep conviction that it will be done. Never allow Doubts & Hesitations to set in. Do not say "I wish I could ...." or "I hope this works" Empower the subconscious mind to find the solution through relaxation, conviction and impregnate the subconscious mind with positive thoughts, habits and behaviours. Rejoice at every successful steps you take and you are on the success trail.

The following true stories of Success will encourage us to keep trying through failures after failures to achieve our goals.

1. Failure is the Pillar of Success


A small boy - the fifth amongst seven siblings of a poor father, was selling newspapers in a small village to earn his living. He was not exceptionally smart at school but was fascinated by religion and rockets. The first rocket he built crashed. A missile that he built crashed multiple times and he was made a butt of ridicule. He is the person to have scripted the Space Odyssey of India single-handedly

He is Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam.

2a. Practice Makes Perfect

In 1962, four nervous young musicians played their first record audition for the executives of the Deccan recording Company. The executives were not impressed. While turning down this group of musicians, one executive said, "We don't like their sound. Groups of guitars are on the way out."

The group was called The Beatles.

2b. In 1954, Jimmy Denny, manager of the Grand Ole Opry, fired a singer after one performance. He told him, "You ain't going nowhere.... son. You ought to go back to driving' a truck."

He became.... Elvis Presley.

3a. Don't hope for Different results by using the same method

When Thomas Edison invented the light bulb, he tried over 2000 experiments before he got it to work. A young reporter asked him how it felt to fail so many times. He said, "I never failed once. I invented the light bulb. It just happened to be a 2000-step process."

3b. When Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone in 1876, it did not ring off the hook with calls from potential backers. After making a demonstration call, President Rutherford Hayes said, "That's an amazing invention, but who would ever want to use one of them?"

3c. In the 1940s, another young inventor named Chester Carlson took his idea to 20 corporations, including some of the biggest in the country. They all turned him down. In 1947, after 7 long years of rejections, he finally got a tiny company in Rochester, NY, the Haloid Company, to purchase the rights to his invention -- an electrostatic paper copying process.

Haloid became Xerox Corporation.

4a. Determination, Patience & Persevere

A little girl - the 20th of 22 children, was born prematurely and her survival was doubtful. When she was 4 years old, she contracted double pneumonia and scarlet fever, which left her with a paralyzed left leg. At age 9, she removed the metal leg brace she had been dependent on and began to walk without it. By 13 she had developed a rhythmic walk, which doctors said was a miracle. That same year she decided to become a runner. She entered a race and came in last.. For the next few years every race she entered, she came in last. Everyone told her to quit, but she kept on running. One day she actually won a race, and then another. From then on she won every race she entered. Eventually this little girl went on to win three Olympic gold medals.

She was Wilma Rudolph,

5. Believe in Yourself

A schoolteacher scolded a boy for not paying attention to his mathematics and for not being able to solve simple problems. She told him that he would not become anybody in life.

The boy was Albert Einstein.

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